Ukrainian women and their uniqueness
So, you are creating your dating profile. It’s very important to mention your REAL marital status, height, weight, your age, education and job. Also attach some photos to your profile. In your very first mail to the Ukrainian woman you can write everything you think worth mentioning in the first letter to a stranger – this can be your life position, some aims and hopes, your interests, a description of a future wife that your are looking for. Remember one thing – it unusual in Ukraine to call a woman ‘dear’, ‘love’, ‘sweet’ in the first letter. She may think you are dishonest or too emotional.
What things to talk about
Never be afraid of expressing your thoughts and feelings: A Ukrainian woman is naturally very emotional and sensitive. Ask questions and answer hers in return. Your questions might be like following: What kind of a man would you like to see near you? What is more important for you: family or business career? Ask how she spent last week and tell her what you did all this time. Write about everything you find interesting. Ask her advice on this, ask her about her plans for the future and share your plans with her.
It would logical to wonder about how long the acquaintance by email communication should last. In this matter you should retain the sense of proportion. On the one hand, long correspondence makes an opportunity to know each other better. On the other hand, Ukrainian women don’t like (inactive) men and will find long correspondence a great pain. So you have to pick the important moment of transition to personal meeting intuitively. Then you should make a decision where your first date will take place – in Ukraine, in your country or in a third country. On the one hand, it’s more comfortable for you to have a meeting in your country – you will feel yourself a master of the situation but for your beloved one it can be hard to be in the unknown place and that can embarrass her. Meeting in Ukraine may seem like a better idea – she is at home and this fact will help her to be herself while your meetings. But the more fair variant is to meet in a third country – there both of you are in the same conditions, but be sure to choose a country that doesn’t require visas for Ukrainian citizens.
Ukrainian woman and her Love
Due to the reality of the Ukrainian life (the wars and totalitarian regime) the awareness of the of the submissive role of women and to the fact the number of women in the country has always been significantly larger than that of men; this definitely can be the reason for this self-sacrifice and unnaturally lowered requirements. Since then the demographic situation didn’t changed.
In their love Ukrainian women often trust their hearts, not logical thinking. One may be handsome, tall and wealthy man and still fail to attract a Ukrainian woman’s interest and attention; the other one may be crazy about her and still fail to arouse a response in her. It does not mean a Ukrainian woman needs a man with physical or spiritual shortcomings. The thing is that she must fall in love with you and only you and then you may count on all-conquering forgiveness and on absolute loyalty.
Usually Ukrainian woman does not expect to profit by her love, she is genuinely selfless, and she often sacrifices her career and her interests because of her family interests and needs. Devotion determines to a great extent the behavior of a Ukrainian woman in love. For most Ukrainian women the words of the church wedding rite ‘I vow to stay with my husband in grief and joy until death separates us’, are still the matter of current significance.
A Ukrainian wife and her husband
A married Ukrainian woman has her life values arranged like this: children – husband – relatives – her home – her work. As you can see, husband plays one of the predominant roles in her life. Always he is a regular sexual partner. A Ukrainian woman nowadays, especially those over 25-30 years old, has serious problems finding a man to start permanent sexual relations with. So, the husband is everything to her. This is also proved by the fact that after the wedding the number of female friends of a young wife are some how reduced: she doesn’t need them any more because her husband also becomes her best friend.
The husband has traditionally been the highest authority for the Ukrainian woman. She will not go out, nor make major purchases, does not take any important decisions without first consulting with him.
For Ukrainian mothers, children have always been the highest value. If you already have your own children your Ukrainian woman will definitely love them too, as if they were her own ones, because the beloved man and his children are inseparable for her.
Quotes from the web:
- Ukrainian women are dumb enough to fall for stupid "one-liners" because you say them in Ukrainian. Absolutely not; Ukrainian women are very intelligent. But if you show real interest in her country and her culture you will earn a lot of points with your woman. And even more points if you are sure to show respect for Ukraine and its culture.
- Most Ukrainian women are married at 19, have a child by 21, and get divorced by 24. that’s generally the deal I saw when I was living there.